One of the best pieces of advice I got when we were preparing for our twins was to keep track of their feedings and diaper changes. It sounded silly at the time but after I had the girls there were sleep-deprived days when I did not know which was up and could easily have fed the same baby over and over.
With newborn twins you are so tired and overworked that it is easy to get confused. Besides feeding the same baby twice, you could also miss one baby being constipated or having other problems. Also with multiples you probably have even more people helping out than you would with one baby. Your spouse, parents, friends, other family, may all be more involved. Charting feedings and changes can make it easy to pass off the kiddos.
We started with charts they use at the hospital. The nurses gave us extras to take home until we could make our own. We saw some very complex ones online to keep track of every minute of the day, but, for our family, we found those unnecessary and were able to make up a simple one on the computer.
We kept track of their feedings (time, amount, order fed) and their changings (urine or stool). I also wanted to keep track of tummy time because it is easy to overlook with two tiny babies and then included space to describe the day or special notes.
To help you get started, here’s our chart: Twins Chart If it was a feeding we filled in the amount portion, if it was a diaper change we checked if it was urine or stool.
After we found out we were having twins, our doctor had to miss our appointment to deliver twins. Her grumpy replacement, would not answer any questions for us. Instead she told us to get a book on twins. So we bought our twins book. And then we asked our doctor a bunch of questions. 🙂